Every woman’s dream is to find Mr. Right. But what many women fail to realize is that in order to find Mr. Right, it’s important to be Ms. Right. In the same way that we dream of a kind, handsome, smart, and stable guy; men also have their ideal woman in mind, a decent whom they can proudly introduce to their parents and friends, someone who came from good family, has good educational background and has good character and values.
Love is not just about waiting patiently; it’s also about preparing and making yourself the best to be a suitable person for the man of your dreams. Don’t rush love. Give it time, give it space and just be still for a spell. Love will find you if you’re ready and when everything is right. Make yourself the best, and desire to be a virtuous woman so you can manage your own family when the right time and right person come.
What every woman could learn from the Virtuous woman in Proverbs 31:
She is rare to find
10 A virtuous woman who can find?
She is worth far more than rubies.
11 Her husband has full confidence in her
and lacks nothing of value.
12 She brings him good, not harm,
all the days of her life.
She is dependable and responsible
15 She gets up while it is still night;
she provides food for her family
and portions for her female servants.
27 She watches over the affairs of her household
and does not eat the bread of idleness.
She is a home maker
28 Her children arise and call her blessed;
her husband also, and he praises her:
23 Her husband is respected at the city gate,
where he takes his seat among the elders of the land.
She is diligent and puts her heart to work
13 She selects wool and flax
and works with eager hands.
17 She sets about her work vigorously;
her arms are strong for her tasks.
She has good and pure heart
19 In her hand she holds the distaff
and grasps the spindle with her fingers.
20 She opens her arms to the poor
and extends her hands to the needy.
She is reliable and doesn’t give in to idleness
21 When it snows, she has no fear for her household;
for all of them are clothed in scarlet.
22 She makes coverings for her bed;
she is clothed in fine linen and purple.
She is faithful and a woman of purpose
25 She is clothed with strength and dignity;
she can laugh at the days to come.
26 She speaks with wisdom,
and faithful instruction is on her tongue.
29 “Many women do noble things,
but you surpass them all.”
She is more than just a pretty face
30 Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting;
but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.
31 Honor her for all that her hands have done,
and let her works bring her praise at the city gate.